
Although I’m no green thumb, I do know a little bit about gardening. As a child, I was often tasked with helping Dad plant seeds and pull weeds. My husband is also an avid gardener, so I learned plenty about plants from him, too. (They are both Virgos, by the way.)
I know plenty about invasive weeds. These are aggressive plants that grow quickly, posing threats to surrounding vegetation. Their roots run deep, using up resources and choking the life out of other plants. According to the USDA, “At first glance, they may appear pretty, but invasive plants can pose serious environmental threats.”
Kudzu is one such invasive weed. At first glance, it’s lovely and seems harmless. Instead, it’s a vine that grows about a foot per day, swallowing everything in its path, including houses. While it’s commonly found in the South, it’s been creeping North. That’s how invasive weeds operate – sneaky, stealthy, and relentless. Once they’ve established their root, they suck up all the energy, like a green vampire.
Some people are invasive weeds.
They appear pretty, friendly, innocuous. In some cases, they might seem helpful. Kudzu was once considered beneficial to soil, until it became obvious that it was problematic. Knowing this, you wouldn’t deliberately plant kudzu in your garden. If you knew someone was harmful, you wouldn’t allow them into your world.
However, it’s not always easy to detect when someone shouldn’t get access.
After all, even the ickiest types can be charming at first. Some even come bearing gifts, ala the old “love bombing” technique. Then there are those that play on your sympathies. (I’m a real sucker for a sob story.} Before long, they’ve planted deep roots that spread to every part of your life – friends, family, mutual acquaintances. If you try to weed them out, they dig in deeper, rooting down into your community and poisoning your well. They might even try to convince others that you’re the weed causing harm to them. Maddening.
Getting rid of these creeps is rarely easy. You must tear them out by the roots, salt the earth, and use “energetic pesticide.” That means cutting cords and putting a protective fence around your community before these invasive weeds have a chance to do further damage. In some cases, they can’t be totally removed. They might have established roots and infected others. You’ll have no choice but to coexist.
After all, people have learned to live side by side with kudzu. They’ve even turned it into jellies and medicinal products. Proof that even the most invasive weeds serve a purpose. In the case of human weeds, they are the best teachers in the art of boundaries.
xo
Theresa
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SO COOL: Tears for Fears’ Roland Orzabal Is Writing an “Astrological Memoir.”
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Good question: Over 125 Years Ago, a Chinese American Won Birthright Citizenship for All. Why Is the Supreme Court Re-Litigating It?
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Want: Welcome to Your Life: Love, Death & Tears For Fears.
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Coming this fall: Tarot Affirmations.
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May 3: Book Launch at Malliway Brothers in Chicago! Join me for a quick talk on my newest book, The Book of Astrological Returns: Your Complete Guide to Every Life Cycle from the Sun to Pluto. Come down, say hi, purchase a book, and get it signed! This is the official launch, ya’ll. Get your bods there!
May 7: Aum Shanti, NY at 6:30 PM ET. I’ll be talking about returns and my latest book – and sticking around to sign ’em! Books will be available for purchase. Hope to see you there!
May 9: Femme Fatale, DC. at 6:30 PM ET. Join me for a free discussion about planetary returns – and get your copy of my latest book signed! Books available for purchase. It’s going to be epic!
May 23: Boston Tea Room, Ferndale, MI. I’ll be talking about my book and signing a bunch! Come on down, grab some tea, and let’s meet. Books available for purchase. I love the Detroit area!
June 20: Tidal Passages, Ipswich, MA from 12 – 2 PM. Join me and learn about returns. Get a book, get it signed, and say hi!
June 21: Copper Dog, Beverly, MA from 4 PM – 6 PM. Super stoked to return to the Copper Dog to talk about returns! Woo hoo! Join me, ask me anything, and get your book signed!
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What I’m Grateful For:
Crocuses
Interesting documentaries
Toothpicks
Trying new recipes
Soundtrack for 4/11/26
Don’t Leave Me This Way by Harold Melvin & The Blue Notes
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I’m Theresa Reed (aka, The Tarot Lady). I’ve been a full-time tarot reader for 30+ years — which, in my industry, makes me pretty badass.
I’m definitely not your average Tarot expert — I drop the F-bomb, I quote rappers, and I’m obsessed with pop culture. Folks come to me for straight-talk + tough-love — without the woo-woo fluff.
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