The Hit List - The easiest, simplest, happiest way I wind down at the end of my day.

From the time my feet hit the floor, I’m in go mode. My days are long – and it’s hard to pry me away from my work. Partly because I love what I do but also: workaholism is a family trait. I always say: you’ll never find a lazy person in our bunch. We’re not wired that way.

The problem with this mindset is the winddown. My parents would end their days with a few cans of beer in front of the tube. Oftentimes, they’d be up late, puttering about with little tasks. It’s almost like they didn’t know how to rest. Because I work at home, it’s really easy to find things to do too. My puttering isn’t housecleaning (although I wish it was), it’s fiddling around on the computer.

Learning how to loosen up and quiet down has been one of my biggest challenges. This may sound stupid but trust me, if you don’t know how to relax, it’s too easy to get sucked up into continuous work mode – and that means your body, mind, and spirit have little time to recover.

I have found a nightly routine that helps me stay off the work mind and get into the rest zone. And it takes only one simple step: I read.

Reading has always been my greatest joy but long workdays meant less PLEASURE reading time. I found myself doing exactly what my parents did by plopping down in front of the television – except my drink of choice was wine and my cell phone was handy in case I needed to scroll the news or answer an email (no one “needs” to do either activity at night).

That is NOT relaxing.

A good book, magazine, or newspaper takes me away from the daily grind and into a better headspace more. I prefer a physical book because it means I can’t jump around from webpage to webpage (or hold a phone). Plus, there is something satisfying about having one in my hands and turning the pages.

As my eyes move over the words, my mind begins to get the memo that work is done. I can check out and check in with myself. I’m transported to a new place – and before long, I’m getting sleepy. This is my perfect winddown. If you’re like me, I recommend getting serious with nightly reading practice. It’s the best way to reboot your brain – and stop working.

The Hit List - The easiest, simplest, happiest way I wind down at the end of my day.

This bee is busy as can bee.

Other stuff:

I love looking into other people’s homes: Gloria Vanderbilt’s Beekman Place Apartment Is for Sale.

I’ve been reading lots of stories like this one: They Spurned the Vaccine. Now They Want You to Know They Regret It.

Wanna find the title of my next book? It’s slipped in this post at Publisher’s Weekly: Tarot, Oracle Decks Divine Sales.

Another thoughtful post from the ever-wise Liz Worth: Should you let people record their tarot readings?

Mark your calendars: August 8 Is One Of The Luckiest Days Of The Year.

This is so cool: How a yard-wide starfish could save this underwater forest.

What Makes an Olympic Moment?

Grrr: Not Their Bodies, Not Their Choice: Conservative Republicans Push For An Overturn Of Roe V. Wade.

I love this: Rihanna Taps An All-Black Women Biker Gang For The Latest Savage X Fenty Campaign.

It Might Feel Like the World Is Ending, But Joy Is Still Possible.

I think about this all the time: When Masks Become Trash.

The perfect post for Leo season comes from Brandy Rachelle: The Lions’ Den & Protecting the Tarot Pride.

Annie Ta Is Making Pinterest a Positive Corner of the Internet.

This looks interesting: The Heroine’s Journey: Woman’s Quest for Wholeness.

I need this: The Mountain Is You: Transforming Self-Sabotage Into Self-Mastery.

Putting this on the list: The Knowing: 11 Lessons to Understand the Quiet Urges of Your Soul.

Ooooh: A Guide to Afterlife Communication: How to Heal from Loss and Connect with Your Loved Ones on the Other Side.

For cat or reincarnation fans: 9 Cats 9 Lives: Karma Reincarnation and You.

NEED: The Power of Tantra Meditation: 50 Meditations for Energy, Awareness, and Connection.

Preorder Tarot For Kids and get an amazing gift!

Tarot: No Questions Asked: Mastering the Art of Intuitive Reading is for tarot lovers of every level. If you’re ready to throw down the cards with confidence, this is your book.

If you prefer to listen to your tarot lessons, I’ve got your back: Tarot: No Questions Asked: Mastering the Art of Intuitive Reading is available as an audiobook.

I get tons of messages from people who’ve told me Astrology for Real Life: A Workbook for Beginners (A No B.S. Guide for the Astro-Curious) helped them to finally understand astrology. Get your copy and see what the fuss is about!

Need a new tarot deck? YES you do: The Uncommon Tarot: A Contemporary Reimagining of an Ancient Oracle.

Here’s a playful but effective way to learn tarot: The Tarot Coloring Book.

No matter how scary things may seem, the tarot has your back. Tarot For Troubled Times can help you learn to navigate all the ups and downs of living in this big ole (and sometimes funky) world.



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What I’m Grateful For:


Music all-day

Making deadlines

Fresh tarot decks to explore

Limeade and tacos


Soundtrack for 7/31/21:

From the Garden by Isaiah Rashad (feat. Lil Uzi Vert)


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