The Hit List - The Eclipse Reset

I was looking forward to my next birthday – and dreading it at the same time. It’s not that I mind getting older. I don’t. There are certain benefits to aging (I’ll take those senior discounts even if I’m not quite there yet! Haha!)

However, after a rough year and astrological aspects from hell quickly approaching, my anxiety was at an all-time high. Mercury retrograde and a direct hit from an eclipse set my teeth on edge. Was this birthday going to suck? Would I be dealing with new drama? Am I getting a cosmic set up for another sucky year? My astrological imagination was running wild with all sorts of scenarios. None of which came to fruition.

Instead, I made some decisions. Rather than sitting around on my hands freaking out, I did what I call an “eclipse reset.” This meant taking a week off from work duties – and two days away from Instagram Lives. I slept in, did lots of salt scrubs, hot showers, prayer, candles, and meditation. I walked in nature, ate cookies, watched Maury and Loudermilk, and read all the books. The cat got extra treats and love. 

Most importantly, I spent time by myself. There is something about being alone that gets me back on track. No matter what was happening in the cosmos or the world at large, my days were immersed in quiet activities. My soul was in a happy place, a good omen for the upcoming year.

Today I woke up feeling more like “me” than ever. I feel cleansed, renewed, grounded, and ready. Ready for a new year, new goals, and new levels. The next time the planets look gnarly, I encourage you to approach it with mindfulness. Rather than letting the fear of “what may be happening” take the wheel, make a decision to pull over. Give yourself permission to regroup before getting back on the road again. You might find a new route and adventure that has been waiting for you all along. 

It’s peony time!

Other stuff:

Interesting: The Itsy-Bitsy, Teenie-Weenie, Very Litigious Bikini.

YIKES: I Went Undercover In The Sinister World Of Meghan Markle Hate Accounts.

Paperboy Prince Is Changing The Face Of New York Politics.

Another reason to avoid planes: Airlines have seen an unprecedented rise in disruptive passengers. Experts say it could get worse.

From MindBodyGreen: Pulled The Wheel Of Fortune Tarot Card? Here’s What You Need To Know.

I love her: Mj Rodriguez Keeps “Pushing The Wheel Of Change” For The Trans Community.

The Free Birth Society: With high rates of maternal mortality and coercion in hospital settings, more American women are exploring childbirth without any medical assistance whatsoever.

Learn about Saturn’s placement in the houses of the natal chart.

Good for her: Darnella Frazier, the Teenager Who Filmed George Floyd’s Murder, Was Recognized With a Pulitzer Prize.

Super intrigued with this: The woman who spent lockdown alone in the Arctic.

From the Modern Love Podcast: Was it me or our astrology?

OMG: Welcome To Froggyland, The Croatian Taxidermy Museum That May Soon Come To The U.S.

Excellent post from Aliza Kelly Faragher: How to Interpret the 12 Houses In Your Birth Chart.

Good question: It’s 2021. Why Are Doctors Still Trying to “Cure” Asexuality?

From Justine Bateman: Face: One Square Foot of Skin.

This looks interesting: A Generous Heart: Changing the World Through Feminist Philanthropy.

For road trips: Subpar Parks: America’s Most Extraordinary National Parks and Their Least Impressed Visitors.

New from Dr. Kristin Neff: Fierce Self-Compassion: How Women Can Harness Kindness to Speak Up, Claim Their Power, and Thrive.

I adore Jessamyn Stanley: Yoke: My Yoga of Self-Acceptance.

Coming soon from Victoria Maxwell and Ellie Grant: Angels Among Us: A Powerful Way to Connect to the Divine.

Want: The Way of Miracles: Accessing Your Superconsciousness.

Summer love is on the way: Tarot for Kids! You can pre-order it now. Yay!

What do you do when you cannot seem to remember what the cards mean? Grab a copy of Tarot: No Questions Asked: Mastering the Art of Intuitive Reading – the perfect tarot reference!

Wanna listen instead of reading – and learn tarot? Tarot: No Questions Asked: Mastering the Art of Intuitive Reading is available as an audiobook.

Get ready to get your astrology on with  Astrology for Real Life: A Workbook for Beginners (A No B.S. Guide for the Astro-Curious).

Have you checked out The Uncommon Tarot: A Contemporary Reimagining of an Ancient Oracle yet? It’s a gorgeous, global deck from the amazing Shaheen Miro (and me!).

Grab your crayons and a big glass of sweet tea for your new fave summertime activity: The Tarot Coloring Book.

Feeling hella stressed? Tarot For Troubled Times is filled with rituals, magic, and tarot – all the tools to support you.



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What I’m Grateful For:


Quiet weekends

Teeny tiny road trips


Fresh breezes on a warm day


Soundtrack for 6/12/21:

Total Eclipse by Klaus Nomi


© Theresa Reed | The Tarot Lady 2021

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